Mark Driscoll wrote a series of posts in his social media feeds that went like this (edited here for coherence):
When life is hard…
- God is not punishing you.
- God is not failing you.
- God has not abandoned you.
- God is not acting evil toward you.
- God will be with you, but he will not answer every question you may have.
In the transcript of this sermon, Driscoll has this to say about trials:
When those seasons come, our emotions tend to be very elevated and escalated. We feel sometimes more clearly than we think.
In the midst of tough times, Driscoll is asking us to think and not feel. I’d say this is good advice. Because if we really think about the five statements above in conjunction with the final three points of the sermon, we have to make tons of logical leaps to accept the fact of what Driscoll calls “a good God”.
Here’s what Driscoll says God says about trials.
- You are going to get trials.
- Trials are a test and an opportunity.
- You will get trials of various kinds.
Think about it. A good loving God allows trials in your life, for a test and an opportunity and he allows all kinds of trials from small to large.
Recall the worst thing that ever happened to you in your life and God allowed that to happen. Why? To test you and give you an opportunity for you “to prove who you are in Christ”. Why? If I am in Christ, and that’s true, what do I have to prove? That I am really in Christ? According to Driscoll God is consistently and constantly sending you all types of trials. It’s all good though because God isn’t doing you any harm, and he’s there for you and he will get you through.
I want you to take Driscoll’s advice and stop feeling for a second. Stop feeling how good it is believing that God is out there and that he loves and cares for you. It makes you feel so warm and fuzzy inside knowing that no matter what happens, large or small, God is there to help you through it. This feeling has gotten you through some pretty hard stuff in life – the loss of a parent, the loss of a child, the loss of a marriage. Feeling God’s love and not thinking about God’s love has been pretty valuable.
But stop feeling and think about it. Does it make rational sense that a good God would allow trials in your life? Is it right that someone who says they love you can permit difficulties in your life and not have to be accountable for their complicity? It’s a win-win for God all the time. He never has to answer your questions, he gets no blame and gets all the credit no matter what happens in your life. Does that makes sense to you?
If God’s ways are higher than our ways I would argue God has a few things to learn from us. As a parent, I would never treat my children the way he treats his children. Only people trapped in dysfunctional and co-dependent relationships allow such abuse to go on. The reasons they do so is because they love the abuser so much and can’t imagine life without them. Think about it.